Omoh & 'Brorhien

De Heirs, is a story God is writing and we are privileged to be an instrument for the fulfilment of His plan for humanity this season.

Friday October 28, 2022

Ekperi, Etsako Central, Edo State, Nigeria.

981 days 19 hrs 30 mins ago

Our Story

We met in 2017 while going to Abuja for a convention hosted by the Christian Alumni Association of our Institution then.

I was in my finals at that time while she was doing her compulsory one-year industrial training course.

On that faithful event of our meeting, we happened to board the same bus with other students and she was sitting at my back.

It was a long journey and everyone got to relate with each other right on the big bus. Selfies were taken. Greetings were made and that was how we got talking.

She collected my phone and began to browse through my gallery and then saw different pictures of myself and some sisters which affected her first impression of me.

During the five-day convention, we interacted a few times and even snapped pictures together but until date, we can't remember how we exchanged contact but I suspect she was the one who collected my number.

At the time of the meeting, we weren't ready for a relationship so that wasn't our basis for communication or friendship. We stayed as friends and along the line, would jokingly call each other's family members inlaws. There wasn't any intention of a relationship.

During the four years of our 'normal' friendship, I have been involved in two different relationships 😷 while she was just there as a friend and the most interesting part is that we didn't see physically for up to four times in the space of those years even though we were in the same School for a year before I graduated.

Though we didn't see much, our communication was consistent and the friendship was genuine.

At those times, whenever the topic of relationship was raised, she was not ready for such commitment until some time in 2020 which I sensed she was ready but I still didn't shoot my shot because I wasn't fully convinced then.

And when I got the final conviction around late 2020, I 'cast and bind' the thoughts. Even before the conviction to be with her, I knew there was something about her but I didn't want anything more than the beautiful friendship we shared, and then, when I became ready for it, somehow, I didn't want it to be her and that was not because she wasn't beautiful and a good friend.

I felt she was too strong-willed and serious and some other things about her that I wasn't comfortable with. But I have come to realize that God never truly gives us the finished products as spouses but the 'raw material' so that through His help, we can help them to become better versions of themselves. This was my case.

After much deliberations, counsel, and prayers, I waited until there was a green light from her end and I made my shot in 2021. But it took this woman of God about 5 months to give me a reply which was in the positive.

We are one year plus in this new journey and sincerely, this is one of the best decisions I have taken in my life. It feels like I have never loved before. The peace here is nothing compared to another and soon, we would be walking down the aisle, saying YES to the newer assignment God has for us.

Like I will always tell her, "I am not getting married to you because I am of age or because a man must marry but because I met YOU. You are the reason."

Indeed, she is the reason and she confirms the revelation God gave me of how He would give me an inheritance as a wife.

So feel free to call our story, 'the trip to Abuja that led to forever'.

Tidbits

How did you first meet?

We met in 2017 on a trip to Abuja. See our story for the details.

Who made the first move? How?

He made the first move when he proposed a relationship.

What was your most memorable date?

Our first official date was at a cinema in Auchi, Edo state. It was just the both of us in the cinema hall and we saw the movie "Two Weeks in Lagos".

What's your favorite activity together?

Praying and gisting...

Where are you going for your honeymoon?

Redemption Camp, Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, Nigeria.

What's the most memorable trip you have taken together?

A trip from Auchi to a train station in Agenebode, both in Edo State.

We’re on the same page about

Our Faith, Purpose, Ministry and of course, this Marriage (lol)

A life goal of ours

To become individual and collective platforms where Christ finds consistent expression.

The most spontaneous thing we’ve done

Saying the same thing at the same time and we are like, "you stole into my mind." Lol

A social cause we care about

Preaching the message of hope, love, and restoration to young people.

What do you both do?

He is a UI/UX designer, graphics designer, brand strategist, and a YouTuber.

I am a writer and author, book project manager/consultant and a human capacity builder.

We are both creatives, using our geniuses to make the world a better place. We're open for business.

Schedule

Registry

We deeply appreciate your kind thoughts towards our journey. Please, find below details on how you can purchase a gift or send your token of love to us.

You can either purchase directly through this link withjoy.com/DeHeirs/registry or by using your favorite stores and should you prefer your gifts in cash, you can make a transfer to the following Bank accounts details:

Account Name: Aigbonoga Omoh Usena
Account Number: 2084729556
Bank: United Bank of Africa (UBA)

Or

Account Name: Oghenebrorhien Guriase
Account Number: 2117507702
Bank: Zenith Bank

Once again, thank you for your support. We pray that God will reward your sacrifice with an overflowing measure.

Travel

Plane

Getting In

We recommend flying into Benin City.

Q & A

For all our friends and family who have lots of questions, please check out our Q & A first!

When is the RSVP deadline?

Please RSVP by October 20th so we can have an accurate headcount.

Can I bring a date?

Yes

Where should I park?

There is plenty of free parking near the entrance of the event location.

What should I wear?

Please see our Schedule for the dress code.

Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

Our traditional wedding is outdoor while the white wedding is indoor.

Is it okay to take pictures with our phones and cameras during the wedding?

Yes! We would love for you to take photos and build some memories. However, please don't disrupt the wedding photographers.

Whom should I call with questions?

Please, call the chief bridesmaids on 08132366037

Wedding Party

Odion Aigbonoga

Maid of Honor

Isoria Innocent

Best Man

Queen Aigbonoga

Bridesmaid

Ernest  Gold

Groomsman

Umoru  Victory Oshiolene

Bridesmaid

Ogundiran Philip

Groomsman

Bridget 

Bridesmaid

Palla Great

Groomsman

Jesus  Baby

Bridesmaid

Isaac Abidemi

Groomsman

Blessing Omobumeh

Bridesmaid

Honour Starlin Eferuyota

Groomsman

Tamarapreye Angela

Bridesmaid

Precious Ayas

Groomsman

Gloria Anthony 

Bridesmaid

Tammy

Groomsman

Peace  Charles 

Bridesmaid

Ukpong  Elisha

Groomsman

Fega Eguriase 

Bridesmaid

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