Tidbits
How did you first meet?
Ronak's coworker at the time and Abby's friend, Chet, invited Ronak last-minute to the annual Charity:water ball in December 2013. This is where we met for the first time, BUT we didn't become friends until the summer after. :)
Who made the first move? How?
Ronak made the first move at Little Branch, an NYC speakeasy, where he waited until their friends had gone home to ask Abby to go out on a date.
Who's going to take out the trash?
Whoever happens to be closer to the trash :)
What was your most memorable date?
We have so many, but one of the first dates we went on, we ended the night at Summit, a bar in Alphabet City. The place was mostly cleared out except for a few people, and while Ronak went to the restroom, a random guy came up to Abby wanting to hold her hand. While this was happening, Ronak came back from the restroom and gave the guy "the look". At which, the guy decided to mask his intentions by asking to hold Ronak's hand too. Hilarity ensued.
What's your favorite activity together?
We love trying new things together - whether that's traveling to a new city or trying out that new cocktail spot in NYC.
Where are you going for your honeymoon?
We're going to a lodge in the Catskills for a few days but will do something bigger after our wedding in India later this year!
What's the best meal you have eaten together?
This is a really hard question - we love food. All food. All the time. But, if we had to pick, one of our favorite meals had to be sushi at the fish market in Toyko. It might have been 10am, but it was worth it.
What's the most memorable trip you have taken together?
For Abby's 30th, we traveled to Japan for two weeks with some friends, and it was absolutely magical!
Schedule
Sunday, May 20, 2018
Lakeside Ceremony
5:00 PM to 5:45 PM
The wedding ceremony will be held outdoors by the lake and will be officiated by our dear friend, Anisha Reddy
Cocktail Attire
Cocktail Hour
6:00 PM to 7:00 PM
Please join us for outdoor cocktails and snacks near the barn.
Blenheim Hill Farm Reception
7:00 PM to 11:00 PM
Time to Eat + Celebrate!
We'll have buffet style food sourced mostly from the farm, drinks, a lot of dancing, and all things wedding until 11pm.
Travel & Things to do
The Catskills B&B
Stamford Gables B&B
Wind in the Willows
Breezy Acres Bed & Breakfast
Black Bear Lodge
Distance: 23.5 miles/30 minutes
Capacity: 20 people
The Virginia Queen
Airbnb Options
Lots of great houses in the area. Recommend booking a big house with a group, arriving on Saturday and making a weekend out of it!
The Roxbury Motel
The Colonial Motel
Distance: 13 miles / 15 minutes
Capacity: 50 people
Jefferson, NY
Jefferson, New York is tucked away in the Catskills and is about three hours away from New York City. Below you'll find a list of motels and Bed and Breakfast options that are within a 10-20m drive from the venue. Due to the snug size of the town and limited hotels, AirBNB has been a great alternative option, especially larger groups. It is recommended that you book in advance in order to secure a close location at a reasonable price.
Things to do in the area
This (click link to view PDF) is great list of everything you can do in the are. We encourage you to make a weekend and explore! Let us know if you have any questions.
Q & A
For all our friends and family who have lots of questions, please check out our FAQ first!
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP before March 31st, 2018.
Can I bring a date?
As much as we trust your judgment in bringing fun, non-weird people to the Catskills, only those with an invite may attend.
What time should I arrive?
It is probably best to arrive shortly before 5pm, so you can orient yourself to the property, sip a mint water, pet some farm animals and find your seat by the lake.
Are kids welcome?
As much as we'd love for all the little tykes to join, we would prefer if only children under 3 attend.
Where should I park?
There is a designated parking area at the end of the road that leads to the farm. There will also be a parking attendant to direct you.
Are the ceremony and reception locations wheelchair accessible?
Yes, both ceremony and reception are accessible by wheelchair or by golf cart, for those who would prefer not to walk.
What should I wear?
Attire for the day is cocktail. No jeans, shorts, or crocs of any kind, please.
What kind of shoes should/shouldn't I wear?
The kind you love to dance in! Do keep in mind that the ceremony is outside in a grassy area.
Whom should I call with questions?
It is best to email the bride and groom, if you have questions about the day. You can reach us at abigail.argersinger@gmail.com or ronakdaya@gmail.com.
Will food be served?
Yes! We will be providing a cocktail hour immediately following the ceremony with bar snacks and a buffet dinner with dessert and open bar during the reception.
What if I have a dietary restriction?
Dinner will be buffet style and will have two main protein options and a vegetarian-forward option as well as bread, salad, and seasonal vegetable sides.
Please indicate any other dietary restrictions when you are rsvp. We will work with our vendor to accommodate these as much as we are able.
Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
The wedding ceremony will be outdoors, the cocktail hour will be outdoors under a tent, and the reception will be inside the barn.
Wedding Party
Hannah Argersinger
Maid of Honor
Anna Christmas
Bridesmaid
Erin Argersinger
Matron of Honor
Rohil Daya
Best Man and the Groom's brother
Madhav Verma
Groomsman
Chet Mancini
Groomsman
Akshay Shetty
Groomsman
Registry
Your presence is enough of a present to us! But for those of you who are stubborn, we've put together a wish-list to help you out.
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