{"id":50844,"date":"2018-03-13T05:37:17","date_gmt":"2018-03-13T12:37:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/?p=50844"},"modified":"2023-10-10T07:29:28","modified_gmt":"2023-10-10T14:29:28","slug":"wedding-thank-notes-gifts-essentials","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/wedding-thank-notes-gifts-essentials\/","title":{"rendered":"Essential Tips for Managing Handwritten and Digital Wedding Thank You Notes"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

The big day is over and you\u2019re basking in that post-wedding bliss. But once you remember all the thank you notes to loved ones that need to be written, you suddenly panic. Don\u2019t worry \u2014 you\u2019re not alone. Wedding thank you notes can feel overwhelming. They\u2019re not just another task to check off your to-do list, however; these missives are a meaningful expression of gratitude that holds a special place in the hearts of your guests. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Wedding thank you notes are probably the last thing you want to think about when you’re still reveling in the whirlwind of your special day. So, whether you’re handwriting your cards or going digital, <\/span>why not get started early? Here\u2019s the perfect strategy for making the process of writing wedding thank you notes as easy and stress-free as possible. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tips for Managing Handwritten Wedding Thank You Notes<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n
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1. Track Gifts as They Arrive<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Gone are the days of carrying piles of gifts home from your wedding reception. More often than not, wedding gifts arrive well before the big day. But one of the biggest mistakes couples make is not opening or recording each gift as they receive them. Packages may arrive without cards, and even those with cards can get jumbled if you let them pile up. The result? You and your partner have to play a game of \u201cfind the gifter\u201d when you should be enjoying some much-deserved honeymoon relaxation. Take a minute now to create a spreadsheet of all your wedding gifts to save you an annoying runaround in the future. Need something easier? Try Joy\u2019s <\/span>guest list manager<\/span><\/a>, which allows you to organize your guests and who\u2019s purchased a gift from your registry, all in one place. You can then export a spreadsheet of gifts and givers whenever you need. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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2. Utilize Columns in Your Spreadsheet<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

We enjoy a good list, but we love organization more. Proper set up of your tracking spreadsheet can help cut down on your time writing those wedding thank you notes. Include a column for notes on each gift or an interaction with the gifter to add a personal touch to your message. Jotting down thoughtful details now will make penning the perfect message a breeze once you\u2019re ready to sit down and start writing. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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3. Keep the Design Simple<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve undoubtedly seen fancy thank you notes with elaborate designs and engravings. While these are fabulous to look at, it\u2019s not necessary to spend a fortune to get the point across to your loved ones. Stay focused on the sentiment rather than the design of the cards. A simple monogrammed stationery or bifold card with \u201cThank You\u201d on the front is perfect for sending your message of gratitude. Want something a little nicer without going overboard? Many of Joy\u2019s <\/span>wedding invitation suites<\/span><\/a> include thank you cards that match your invites for a streamlined look.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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4. Keep the Message Short and Sweet<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t feel the need to wax poetic about a thoughtful gift. Hold space for a sincere message that focuses on how you will use the gift and what it means to you and your partner to have received it. Add in a line about how grateful you are that your guests were there to celebrate your marriage and you\u2019ve got all the makings of a well-rounded note.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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5. Use a Template<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

We usually say to not use a template, but hear us out. Crafting an outline doesn\u2019t mean everyone will receive a card that\u2019s a word-for-word carbon copy. Instead of a plug and play script, relieve your writer\u2019s block by creating a broader blueprint. Give the example below a try. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n