{"id":86789,"date":"2026-07-21T07:31:04","date_gmt":"2026-07-21T14:31:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/?p=86789"},"modified":"2026-07-21T07:31:08","modified_gmt":"2026-07-21T14:31:08","slug":"how-to-plan-a-micro-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/how-to-plan-a-micro-wedding\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Plan a Micro Wedding: The Complete Guide for Intimate Celebrations"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Quick answer:<\/strong>&nbsp;A micro wedding is an intentionally small event with 10 to 50 guests, a full ceremony and reception, and a higher per-guest budget than a traditional wedding. Average cost: $5,000 to $15,000, though couples often spend more per person on food, venue, and photography. Start planning 6 to 12 months out, focusing on venue, guest list, and the 3 to 5 details that matter most to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A micro wedding is not a scaled-down version of a big wedding. It is a different format entirely: fewer guests, more time with each person, higher quality on the details that matter, and significantly less logistical stress. Couples choosing micro weddings are not settling: they are making a deliberate decision about how they want to spend their wedding day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This guide covers everything from defining your guest list and choosing the right venue to managing family expectations and spending your budget where it counts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-what-is-a-micro-wedding\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">What Is a Micro Wedding?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A micro wedding typically has 10 to 50 guests. It includes a ceremony, a reception (usually a seated meal), and most of the elements of a traditional wedding: photography, flowers, music, attire. The difference is scale and intentionality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><thead><tr><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Type<\/th><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Guests<\/th><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Ceremony<\/th><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Reception<\/th><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Typical budget<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Elopement<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">0 to 10<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Yes<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Optional (dinner, not a party)<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$1,000 to $5,000<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Micro wedding<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">10 to 50<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Yes<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Yes (full reception)<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$5,000 to $15,000<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Traditional wedding<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">75 to 300+<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Yes<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Yes<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$20,000 to $50,000+<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The key distinction from an elopement: a micro wedding has a proper guest list and a planned reception. The key distinction from a traditional wedding: intentionally limited guest count, not just a smaller version of 200-person planning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-why-couples-choose-micro-weddings\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why Couples Choose Micro Weddings<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The reasons are practical and personal:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Budget reallocation:<\/strong>\u00a0Fewer guests means you can spend more on what matters. A $200-per-plate dinner for 30 people costs $6,000. For 150 people, that is $30,000. Many couples prefer the intimate experience at a fraction of the total cost.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Less stress:<\/strong>\u00a0Coordinating 30 people is fundamentally different from coordinating 200. Fewer vendors, simpler logistics, shorter planning timeline.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>More time with guests:<\/strong>\u00a0At a 200-person wedding, the couple spends an average of 2 minutes per guest. At a 30-person wedding, you have a real conversation with everyone.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Venue freedom:<\/strong>\u00a0Small guest counts unlock venues that cannot host 150: restaurants, private homes, rooftops, vacation rentals, parks, galleries, libraries.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Faster planning:<\/strong>\u00a0A micro wedding can come together in 3 to 6 months. Some couples plan in weeks.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-how-to-set-your-micro-wedding-budget\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">How to Set Your Micro Wedding Budget<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Micro weddings cost less in total but often more per guest. A $10,000 micro wedding with 25 guests is $400 per person. A $30,000 traditional wedding with 150 guests is $200 per person. Both are valid: you are buying a different experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Typical cost breakdown for a micro wedding:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><thead><tr><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Category<\/th><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Typical range<\/th><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Notes<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Venue<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$1,000 to $5,000<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Restaurants, private dining rooms, vacation rentals often cost less<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Food and drink<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$2,000 to $6,000<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Higher per-plate spend, fewer plates. Multi-course plated meals work well.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Photography<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$1,500 to $4,000<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Shorter coverage needed (4 to 6 hours vs 8 to 10)<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Flowers<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$500 to $2,000<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Fewer centerpieces. Focus on bouquet and one statement piece.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Attire<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$500 to $3,000<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Same as any wedding, though some couples go less formal<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Music<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$200 to $1,500<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Curated playlist or a solo musician works better than a full band for 25 guests<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Officiant<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$200 to $800<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Same regardless of wedding size<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Invitations<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">$50 to $300<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Fewer invitations needed.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/wedding-invitations?print=true\">Digital invitations<\/a>&nbsp;are practical and stylish for a small guest list.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-building-the-guest-list-the-hardest-part\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Building the Guest List: The Hardest Part<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With a micro wedding, the guest list is the most consequential and most emotionally charged decision. Every name you add changes the dynamic. Here is how to approach it:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Start with a number, not names.<\/strong>\u00a0Agree on a max count first: 20, 30, 40. Then fill the list.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Use tiers.<\/strong>\u00a0Tier 1: people you cannot imagine the day without. Tier 2: people you love but the wedding still feels complete without. Only invite Tier 1.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Apply rules consistently.<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cNo aunts\u201d is defensible. \u201cYour aunt but not mine\u201d is not.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Decide on plus-ones early.<\/strong>\u00a0For a 30-person wedding, 10 plus-ones is a 33% increase in your guest count.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Communicate early and clearly.<\/strong>\u00a0The people not invited will notice. A sincere, proactive message (\u201cWe are having a very small ceremony with just parents and siblings\u201d) is better than silence.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Track your guest list, RSVPs, and meal preferences in one place. A&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/help\/en\/articles\/8343484-guest-list-overview\">digital guest list tool<\/a>&nbsp;keeps everything organized even for a small wedding, and you will have accurate headcounts for your venue and caterer without chasing responses manually.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/photo-1465495976277-4387d4b0b4c6-2.jpg\" alt=\"Couple exchanging vows at an intimate ceremony with close family\" class=\"wp-image-86790\" srcset=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/photo-1465495976277-4387d4b0b4c6-2.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/photo-1465495976277-4387d4b0b4c6-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/photo-1465495976277-4387d4b0b4c6-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/photo-1465495976277-4387d4b0b4c6-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/photo-1465495976277-4387d4b0b4c6-2-1170x780.jpg 1170w, https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/photo-1465495976277-4387d4b0b4c6-2-585x390.jpg 585w, https:\/\/withjoy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/photo-1465495976277-4387d4b0b4c6-2-263x175.jpg 263w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-best-venues-for-micro-weddings\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Best Venues for Micro Weddings<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Small guest counts open up venue options that are impossible or impractical for large weddings:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Restaurants and private dining rooms:<\/strong>\u00a0Food is handled, ambiance is built in, and setup\/cleanup is the venue\u2019s responsibility. Many restaurants offer private event menus for 20 to 40 guests.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Vacation rentals:<\/strong>\u00a0A large Airbnb or VRBO with a backyard is a popular micro wedding venue. Doubles as accommodation for out-of-town guests.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Estates and gardens:<\/strong>\u00a0Smaller capacity estates often have lower minimums and more flexible policies than large event spaces.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>City hall or courthouse:<\/strong>\u00a0The ceremony is handled. Add a dinner at a nice restaurant for the full experience.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Rooftops and galleries:<\/strong>\u00a0Unique urban spaces that work beautifully for 20 to 50 guests.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Parks and outdoor spaces:<\/strong>\u00a0Permit fees are low ($50 to $500 in most cities). Bring your own chairs, an arch, and an officiant.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Your own home or backyard:<\/strong>\u00a0Maximum comfort, zero venue fee. Budget goes to rentals, catering, and decor instead.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If many of your guests are traveling, consider setting up a&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/travel\">hotel room block<\/a>&nbsp;near your venue. Even for a small wedding, group rates make travel easier and keep guests together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-managing-family-expectations\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Managing Family Expectations<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The most common pushback couples face is from parents who expect a large wedding, either because of cultural norms, family obligations, or their own preferences. This is real and valid: a micro wedding means some people will not be invited, and that can create tension.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Strategies that work:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Include parents in the decision early.<\/strong>\u00a0Explaining your reasoning before the invitations go out prevents surprises.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Offer alternatives for excluded guests.<\/strong>\u00a0A post-wedding celebration (casual reception, backyard party, brunch) lets extended family celebrate without expanding the wedding itself.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Be firm but kind.<\/strong>\u00a0\u201cWe love your family, and we are keeping the ceremony to 25 people\u201d is a complete answer.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Let parents contribute to what they value.<\/strong>\u00a0If your mom wants to help with flowers or your dad wants to give a toast, make room. Micro does not mean exclusionary.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-food-and-drink-for-a-small-wedding\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Food and Drink for a Small Wedding<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A micro wedding gives you food options that a large wedding does not:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Multi-course plated dinner:<\/strong>\u00a0The gold standard for intimate weddings. Easier for restaurants and caterers to execute at high quality for 20 to 40 guests.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Family-style service:<\/strong>\u00a0Platters passed around the table. Creates a communal, warm atmosphere.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Private chef:<\/strong>\u00a0Hire a chef to cook at a vacation rental or home. Surprisingly affordable for 20 to 30 guests ($75 to $150 per person).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Food truck or pop-up:<\/strong>\u00a0Casual, fun, and often $30 to $60 per person including drinks.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Brunch wedding:<\/strong>\u00a0Lower food and alcohol costs, and guests love it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Collect dietary restrictions and meal preferences through your&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/help\/en\/articles\/8293305-customize-your-rsvp-questions\">RSVP form<\/a>. Even with 25 guests, knowing allergies and preferences in advance makes the caterer\u2019s job easier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-do-you-need-a-wedding-website-for-a-micro-wedding\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Do You Need a Wedding Website for a Micro Wedding?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yes. A wedding website is even more useful for a micro wedding because every detail is personal. Your 25 guests are your closest people: they want to know the story, the schedule, and the logistics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/\">wedding website<\/a>&nbsp;centralizes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Event schedule (ceremony, dinner, after-party)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Venue details and directions<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hotel recommendations or\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/travel\">room block links<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>RSVP collection with meal preferences<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Your story, photos, and wedding party<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Registry information<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For destination micro weddings especially, guests need travel information, accommodation options, and a clear schedule. A wedding website eliminates individual questions and keeps everyone on the same page.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-planning-a-destination-micro-wedding\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Planning a Destination Micro Wedding<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Micro weddings and destination weddings are a natural pairing. A small guest count makes destination logistics manageable: fewer flights to coordinate, fewer hotel rooms to block, and an intimate group that is excited to travel together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Popular destination micro wedding formats:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Villa or vacation rental for a wedding weekend<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Beach ceremony with a restaurant reception<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>European elopement-style with a small group<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>National park ceremony with a nearby lodge dinner<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Use your&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/help\/en\/articles\/15388665-planning-a-destination-wedding-with-joy\">wedding website\u2019s travel tools<\/a>&nbsp;to organize flights, accommodations, and local recommendations for your guests in one place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-micro-wedding-timeline\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Micro Wedding Timeline<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A shorter planning timeline is one of the biggest advantages of a micro wedding. Here is a realistic schedule:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><thead><tr><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Timeframe<\/th><th class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Task<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">6 to 12 months out<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Set budget, finalize guest list, book venue, hire photographer<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">4 to 6 months out<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Book officiant, choose attire, plan menu, set up wedding website<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">2 to 3 months out<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Send invitations (digital or print), book florist\/music, set up registry<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">1 month out<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Confirm vendors, finalize seating, collect RSVPs, write vows<\/td><\/tr><tr><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">1 week out<\/td><td class=\"has-text-align-left\" data-align=\"left\">Confirm final headcount, review timeline with vendors, prepare day-of kit<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-registry-for-a-micro-wedding\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Registry for a Micro Wedding<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A small guest list does not mean you skip the registry. Your 25 to 40 guests will still want to give you something. Focus on what you actually need:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Cash funds:<\/strong>\u00a0Honeymoon funds, house down payment funds, or experience funds let guests contribute to what you value.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Curated physical gifts:<\/strong>\u00a0A smaller, more intentional list. 20 to 30 items is plenty for a micro wedding.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Charity donations:<\/strong>\u00a0Some couples ask guests to donate to a cause instead of buying gifts.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Share your registry through your wedding website so guests can find it easily without asking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Everything your guests need, in one place.<\/strong>&nbsp;Set up your&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/\">free wedding website<\/a>&nbsp;to share your story, collect&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/help\/en\/articles\/8293305-customize-your-rsvp-questions\">RSVPs with meal preferences<\/a>, manage your&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/help\/en\/articles\/8343484-guest-list-overview\">guest list<\/a>, and share&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/travel\">hotel room blocks<\/a>&nbsp;for out-of-town guests.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/withjoy.com\/\">Start free on Joy.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"h-frequently-asked-questions\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Frequently Asked Questions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-how-many-guests-is-a-micro-wedding\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">How many guests is a micro wedding?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A micro wedding typically has 10 to 50 guests. The most common range is 20 to 35. Anything under 10 is closer to an elopement; above 50 crosses into a small traditional wedding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-how-much-does-a-micro-wedding-cost\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">How much does a micro wedding cost?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Total cost typically ranges from $5,000 to $15,000, though couples spending more per guest can reach $20,000+. The per-person cost is usually higher than a traditional wedding ($200 to $500 per guest), but the total is significantly lower.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-what-is-the-difference-between-a-micro-wedding-and-an-elopement\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">What is the difference between a micro wedding and an elopement?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">An elopement has 0 to 10 guests (often just the couple and a witness) and may skip the reception. A micro wedding has 10 to 50 guests and includes a full ceremony and reception with many of the same elements as a traditional wedding, just at a smaller scale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-do-you-need-a-wedding-planner-for-a-micro-wedding\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Do you need a wedding planner for a micro wedding?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Usually no. With fewer vendors and simpler logistics, most couples can manage a micro wedding themselves. A day-of coordinator ($500 to $1,500) is worth considering so you do not spend your wedding morning coordinating deliveries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"h-how-do-you-tell-people-they-are-not-invited-to-your-micro-wedding\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">How do you tell people they are not invited to your micro wedding?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Proactively and kindly. Before word spreads, send a message: \u201cWe are having a very small ceremony with just immediate family and a few close friends. We would love to celebrate with you at [post-wedding party\/dinner] on [date].\u201d Do not apologize excessively or over-explain.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Quick answer:&nbsp;A micro wedding is an intentionally small event with 10 to 50 guests, a full ceremony and reception, and a higher per-guest budget than a traditional wedding. 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