Story
After a year-long missed connection living in 'A' entryway of Quincy House at Harvard, we finally broke the ice a decade later, meeting through a dating app in 2019. Our first date was love at second sight, with hours of conversation and laughter. We started dating and never looked back, even in the face of a global pandemic. Tom proposed to Clare in Providence, Rhode Island -- a favorite overnight getaway locale for the couple -- in April 2022. We look forward to joyously celebrating our union with our dearly beloved in May 2023.
Tidbits
How did you first meet?
See our 'Story'!
Who made the first move? How?
Tom made the first move when he sent Clare a sweet message after matching on Tinder.
Who's going to take out the trash?
Him (after she peeled the veggies...)
What was your most memorable date?
Our second date, where as a team of two we won bar trivia, and then celebrated later with our first kiss.
What's your favorite activity together?
Reading in bed on a Saturday before a hike and a museum trip, with a fun dinner out to follow.
Where are you going for your honeymoon?
Montreal for a mini-moon immediately post-wedding...Summer 2023 Europe honeymoon TBD!
What's the best meal you have eaten together?
French dinner at Parc Restaurant in Philadelphia
What's the most memorable trip you have taken together?
New York City or New Orleans
We’re on the same page about
What's important to us. And that's spending time with the people we love most. (You all!)
A life goal of ours
Home and kids...and maybe writing some books!
The most spontaneous thing we’ve done
Our plans *are* our strength
The dorkiest thing about us is
Too many to list here
A social cause we care about
Affordable and accessible education and housing
We are regulars at
Barcelona, Tavolo, Grand Ten
Teach us something about
What you're passionate about
We take pride in
Our commitment to maintaining connections to friends and family
Schedule
Registry
Your presence is enough of a present to us! But for those of you who are stubborn, we've put together a wish-list to help you out.
Travel
Q & A
For all our friends and family who have lots of questions, please check out our Q & A first!
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by March 30th, so we can have an accurate headcount :-)
Can I bring a date?
Please refer to your invitation
Are kids welcome?
Kids are welcome but we will not have on-site babysitting
What will the weather be like?
Welcome to Boston, all of you out-of-towners! During the day, the weather in May should be beautiful, averaging 65 degrees, but will likely get chilly at night. Please bring some warm layers for the evening.
Where should I park?
There is plenty of free parking at Lyman Estate
Are the ceremony and reception locations wheelchair accessible?
Yes
What should I wear?
Formal attire
Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
Our wedding ceremony is indoors, but outdoor spaces on Lyman's beautiful grounds will be available during our reception
What kind of shoes should/shouldn't I wear?
We recommend against stiletto heels as there are a bunch of grassy/dirt areas that you might have to walk in
Is it okay to take pictures with our phones and cameras during the wedding?
Yes! We would love for you to take photos and share them. However, please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony.
Whom should I call with questions?
For any questions, please do not hesitate to email us at tomandclare2023@gmail.com
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