Dely & Shax

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Sunday June 12, 2022

Golden, CO, USA

1155 days 8 hrs 46 mins ago

Story

Our story begins in 2015 when we met through a group of Rwandan artists (Malaika, Ju, Ganza, Allan, Yannick, J Pac & Christian) who were working on a collective project. One of the artists, Malaika asked Dely to join the team as a project manager and the next step was to meet in Washington, DC. Before the trip, Dely conducted initial calls to talk about the project with everybody. Dely's call with Shax ended up being longer than expected with deep conversations about creativity, entertainment, and everything in between. When we got a chance to meet in DC, we got to know each other better. While neither of us was looking for a relationship, the universe kept pulling us together. What was supposed to be a fun work weekend ended up evolving into this love story. We have been inseparable since and our love has expanded into our little beautiful human.

Tidbits

Who made the first move? How?

Dely: He did. But I believe in women giving hints!

Shax: Of course I made the first move but she had it coming :)

What was your most memorable date?

Dely: I have two...can't choose. First, a night stroll in Central Park the first time he came to visit. The night he asked me to be his girlfriend. Second, the time he came to see me at my work PR/celebrity event at the Dream Penthouse hotel. Afterward, we went to the rooftop and met people plus watched the stars and the Empire State building.

Shax: After all these years, there's a lot! I can literally write a book. The first time I came to see her in NY and she was waiting for me at Grand Central train station with a bracelet she bought for me. It broke as soon as I tried it on, I don't think she even remembers that! Her reaction after that is what made me fall in love with her even more.

What's your favorite activity together?

Dely: Eating and traveling (we like exploring new places/towns). Oh and wineries lol.

Shax: Definitely traveling and exploring different foods/restaurants.

What drew you to the person?

Dely: His lips and heart. He’s the nicest person ever and very very generous!

Shax: It's the body for me jk... Her beautiful mind, I just wanted to hear her speak the whole time. The more we got closer the more I realized that we shared a lot of life goals.

What's the best meal you have eaten together?

Dely: Definitely Seven Reason's chef table (everything was out of this world).

Shax: I second that! Seven Reasons is the best we've had by far.

What's the most memorable trip you have taken together?

Dely: I'd say the week we worked at the same conference. It was just the two of us for like three days. If you have a kid, you'll understand. There's never really the perfect time for just the two of us. We explored new restaurants, bars and we even found this trendy cigar place. This experience brought us back to the old days. Others: Staunton city. I just love discovering little towns with him and our son. Wait, Greenbrier is a close third!

Shax: Greenbrier is on the top of my list. (Storytime) We ended up on a jet for some good reason, landed at an airport with just one gate, explored a town that just has two cabs that are owned by the same person. They don't believe in Uber and Lyft because everybody drives around there. Then three days later, we flew back on a Boeing 777 with just the three of us on the whole plane. It doesn't get better than that. :)

Tell us about the proposal

Dely: I'll let Shax tell you the story but he got me so good. I remember just thinking that this can't be real. And poor guy was on his knees forever because I was busy crying and forgot to say yes. Then the crowd started yelling "say yes, say yes" and that's when I snapped back to reality. It was magical and some of my favorite people were there! The cutest thing is that he used a clear box with a flower in it that I had just seen and been obsessing over during our Florida trip.

Shax: The thought had always been daunting at the back of my mind for some time. Then we happened to be planning a trip to Florida and that's when the light bulb went off! Which other perfect moment will I ever have than this? The idea was to propose during dinner on our last night of the trip, little did I know that the jeweler didn't want me to be great! They told me that the ring was not going to be ready in time for the trip. I was stressed the whole trip trying to figure out plan B.

During our trip, we got an invite to the grand opening of Peter Lik's (a self-taught pioneer in the field of landscape photography) Fine Art gallery that was opening up in Virginia and the event was on the same day we were landing back from our Florida trip. That's when another light bulb went off. There was my plan B, to propose in the middle of the gallery with Jazz music playing and this time we can have some of our friends and her family attend. Little did I know that the manager did not want me to be great! At this point, I start to panic. I already had her family scheduled to be in town for the weekend and I had to figure out plan C ASAP.

On our way to our gate, I get a notification that Christopher Linman was performing at the Ritz-Carlton (one of our favorite places which is also where we spent our first valentines). That's when another light bulb went off again! So I messaged him right before the flight took off. Fast-forward, you know those first notifications you get as the airplane is landing? 5-10 of them were from Chris with confirmation that it's possible and asked if we were still on because he couldn't reach me for a while. What an impression! While waiting for our Uber, I stepped outside to call him to go over the details of the night. The trip from the airport was the longest because I still had to get ready and you guessed right. Go PICK UP THE RING! At this point, Dels thinks that I'm just excited to go to the grand opening because I was all over the place. I quickly got ready then snuck out of the house to pick up the ring while she was getting ready. Phew, everything worked out perfectly. FINALLY!

On our way, I casually mentioned that we were all going to the Ritz after the event. Fast-forward, I'm on the mic at the Ritz calling her name out to join me. Oh! it was also her birthday, so the band is singing happy birthday to her as she walks towards me with a WTF face on. After wishing her a happy birthday I glanced over to the crowd as I got down on one knee to ask her the question and saw her family. Did I mention that I got stuck there for what felt like forever? She just froze and that's when I knew I had nailed it.

We’re on the same page about

Respect has always been the foundation of our relationship and we share the same family values. Also creativity, dancing, and letting the other person live their life (eg.: Self-care, time with our friends, etc...)

The most spontaneous thing we’ve done

When we decided to spend the night on a rooftop at the beginning of our relationship. Watching the stars at night and waking up to the sun hitting our faces was just unmatched. The good ol' days!

A life goal of ours

Generational wealth, personal growth, and raising nice and well-rounded kids!

A social cause we care about

Mentorship.

We take pride in

Hard work and growth!

Where are you going for your honeymoon?

Dely: We don't know yet. I'm leaning towards a countrywide road trip!? (I want to visit all the historical places).

Shax: I don't even know where we will start, we might have a couple of honeymoons if that's a thing.

Sekai what do you like about your parents?

About Maman: I like our cuddles, when you take me to ride my scooter and bike. And when we saw Goofy, Donald, and the yellow bear (aka Winnie the Pooh). And when the birds ate waffles.

About Dada: I like grilling with dada. I like when we go to the gas station to put gas because he lets me do it. I also like when he takes me to go see firetrucks, police cars, and my doctor.

Wedding Party

Christiana Okuwobi

Maid of Honor

Yannick Murayire

Best Man

Sekai Shyaka

Ring Bearer

Heather

Bridesmaid (Traditional)

Admire

Bridesmaid (Traditional)

Gabby

Bridesmaid (Traditional)

Roslyn

Bridesmaid (Traditional)

Emmanuel 

Groomsman (Traditional)

Richard

Groomsman (Traditional)

Tat

Groomsman (Traditional)

Registry

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