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Monday September 5, 2022
Whitehall, MT, USA
999 days 17 hrs 37 mins ago
Story
We first met in person at Venus Rising Espresso House in Butte, I remember being very anxious. As I was approaching the door to meet her, I dropped my mask and had an awkward moment trying to pick it up. I was hoping Heather didn't see my clumsiness. She did, she was right behind me. As we sat and had our coffee, I couldn't help but stare at her incredible smile and blue eyes. In my head I couldn't stop saying, "WOW, what an incredible woman!" -Kevin
The first thing that struck me about Kevin was his sense of humor. Before we met in person, we met online. It was the first day for both of us on the site. The first thing he messaged me was something silly and I remember thinking, "Is this guy for real?". I think we were both nervous about meeting in person, but when we met for coffee, and afterward walked to the Granite Mountain Fire memorial in Butte, I just remember feeling perfectly comfortable. Of course he is cute! But his easy going demeanor set me at ease right from the start. Our senses of humor clicked from the beginning and we have been laughing together ever since. -Heather
Tidbits
How did you first meet?
Something new to both of us was online dating. Something I believe we were very hesitant about. It was both of our first night on the site and we happened to find each other. I was drawn to her smile and the cross she wears around her neck. After about a week of witty banter and tons of laughter we decided to meet in person.
Who's going to take out the trash?
Whoever happens to be closer to the trash :)
What was your most memorable date?
We've had so many memorable dates it's hard to pick just one. However, on one occasion while driving around looking at Christmas lights and drinking hot chocolate, Heather said, "Oh, look a snowman!" I looked all over for a snowman, not realizing she was talking about the Lady of the Rockies on the mountain. I hadn't laughed that hard in a very long time.-Kevin
Looking at Christmas lights was indeed memorable. I was impressed by the time and thought he put into that date. Another one of my favorites was our road trip to Missoula. Once again, Kevin impressed me with the time and thought he put into the day and also with his mellow, easy going way. He was happy to stop along the way for anything I wanted to see. It was this day we realized we are both more interested in the journey than the destination. We love road trips together so much we are going on one for our honeymoon! -Heather
What's your favorite activity together?
Enjoying the outdoors, adventuring together, exploring new things and places.
Where are you going for your honeymoon?
We are going on a road trip adventure to as many National Parks as we can! One highlight will be stopping at the Grand Canyon where Heather's grandparents went on their honeymoon.
We’re on the same page about
What is important to us. And that is spending time with the people we love most. (You all!)
Schedule
Registry
Your presence is enough of a present to us! We really don't need a thing! But for those of you who are blessed by giving gifts, we've put together a wish-list to help you out.
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Q & A
For all our friends and family who have lots of questions, please check out our Q & A first!
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP as soon as possible
Can I bring a date?
Absolutely!
Are kids welcome?
Kids are always welcome :)
What will the weather be like?
Weather here in Montana is very unpredictable but should be in the range of 65 to 80 during the day and drop 10 to 20 degrees at night.
Where should I park?
There is plenty of free parking at Copper K Barn.
Are the ceremony and reception locations wheelchair accessible?
Yes
What should I wear?
Whatever is comfortable to you!
Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
Our wedding ceremony is outdoors with 360 degree mountain views. There is a large barn for the reception and dancing.
Is it okay to take pictures with our phones and cameras during the wedding?
Yes! We would love for you to take photos and share them on our app Joy.
Wedding Party
Erin Wheeler
Matron of Honor
Tony Alley
Best Man
Chase Alley
Groomsman
Dennis McIntyre
Father of the Bride
Bonnie Duecker
Mother of the Bride
Nancy Alley
Mother of the Groom
Jim Alley
Father of the Groom
Robin Bell
Officiant
Jake Ryan
Officiant
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