Jamar & Tocarra

We can't wait to share our special day with you. Help us capture our wedding with Joy.

Saturday October 9, 2021

Naperville, IL, USA

1368 days 11 hrs 6 mins ago

Story

Jamar and I first met as students at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign in 2002. I was a sophomore and Jamar was a freshman. We had many classes together as well as casual classroom conversations however, at that time Jamar was too shy to ask me out. Ten years later Jamar reached out to me on Facebook and asked me out on a date. We dated for five months but decided to part ways. Then seven years later fate brought us together again.

Jamar reached out to me on LinkedIn and asked me out to dinner. I accepted the invitation, we had a wonderful conversation, and we've been inseparable ever since. Our dating experience the second time around was completely different due to the pandemic. We were able to form an even deeper bond and focus on building a strong foundation for our relationship. We are fortunate that our life's journey led us back to one another and now we are #WrightWhereWebelong!!!

Tidbits

How did you first meet?

See Our Story!

Who made the first move? How?

Jamar made the first move by reaching out on Facebook!

Who's going to take out the trash?

Jamar :)

What was your most memorable date?

Indoor Skydiving and Bike ride down Monterey Coast.

What's your favorite activity together?

We love to travel and finding new restaurants to dine at!

Where are you going for your honeymoon?

Anywhere with beautiful beaches! Maybe the Maldives before it goes completely underwater?

We’re on the same page about

What's important to us. And that's spending time with the people we love most, our families and friends; and keeping God at the head of our relationship.

Schedule

Registry

Bridal Shower Registry

Travel

Q & A

For all our friends and family who have lots of questions, please check out our Q & A first!

When is the RSVP deadline?

Please RSVP by September 12, 2021, so we can have an accurate headcount. :)

Can I bring a date?

Please check your invite for your +1!

Are kids welcome?

Kids are not welcome to ceremony and reception unless approved by the bride and groom.

What will the weather be like?

The weather will be a nice fall afternoon.

Where should I park?

There is plenty of free parking in the golf club parking lot.

Are the ceremony and reception locations wheelchair accessible?

Yes, and we will have a golf cart available for anyone needing assistance getting around the property.

What should I wear?

At the bride's request we ask that the guest not wear the following colors: White, Ivory, Champagne, and Cinnamon.

Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

Our wedding ceremony is outdoors, but our reception will be indoors :)

What kind of shoes should/shouldn't I wear?

Any shoes are acceptable.

Is it okay to take pictures with our phones and cameras during the wedding?

Please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. However, we would love for you to take photos and recording and share them on our app Joy.

Whom should I call with questions?

Please email Tamika Chism at tamikachism5@gmail.com for all questions. Please check website frequently for updates!

Wedding Party

Tamika  Chism

Matron of Honor

Aaron LeSure

Best Man

LaTanya Cowart

Bridesmaid

Donald Dantzler

Groomsman

Kyra  Coggins

Bridesmaid

Markus Chism

Groomsman

Debreshia  Flowers-Anderson

Bridesmaid

Samiya Wright

Bridesmaid

Terrel Gibson

Groomsman

DeVaughn Gibson

Groomsman

Karshena Dantzler

Bridesmaid

Latoya  Dantzler

Bridesmaid

Demone Williams

Groomsman

Sterling  Williams

Groomsman

Kemon Chism

Junior Groomsman

Makayla Chism

Junior Bridesmaid

McKenzie Chism

Junior Bridesmaid

Queen  Arnold 

Flower Girl

Avonte McGowan

Ring Bearer

TJ Turner

Usher

Kaylen Coggins

Honorary Attendant

Dazmine Chaney

Honorary Attendant

Kenya Dantzler

Bridesmaid

Sam Wright

Father of the Groom

Zena Dantzler

Mother of the Bride

Petrese Wright

Mother of the Groom

Cedric  Burkett

Officiant

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