Saturday May 2, 2020
Memphis, TN, USA
Story
In 2005, Mara moved from Montgomery, Alabama to Grenada, Mississippi as a freshman in high school. Fast forward to April 2006, she was invited to a birthday dinner at a local restaurant called Jack and Rips. Mara was still considered the "new girl" so she didn’t know a lot of the upperclassman. Mara states, “I remember it so vividly. I was standing at the hostess stand waiting to be seated at the birthday dinner. I was super early because my parents dropped me off, and in walks this guy with smooth chocolate skin, and pretty white teeth. I was so nervous and embarrassed I don’t even think I spoke when I saw him LOL.” They didn’t exchange too many words at the dinner, but after spending about an hour admiring her Malcolm told his friends, “that's going to be my girlfriend.” Malcolm states, "I saw Mara around school before the dinner. She was the new girl so of course everyone was talking about her. I just wanted to get to know her. She was cute, but I wanted to know her." They connected on Facebook a few months later and exchanged phone numbers. After four months, Mara finally agreed to be his girlfriend.
Over the years, they have faced the ups and downs of life, and have successfully transitioned from children to young adults — together. On February 16, 2019, while celebrating his little sister's 21st birthday in Miami, Florida, Malcolm made the next move and asked Mara to be his wife. Without a moment of hesitation Mara said, “of course.”
Malcolm and Mara thank each of you for the part you have played in their life rather big or small. On May 2, 2020, they ask that you to join them in celebrating their big day.
1 Corinthians 13:4
Tidbits
How did you first meet?
See Our Story!
Who made the first move? How?
He made the first move when he added me on Facebook. We talked through messenger and finally exchanged numbers. We talked on the phone for HOURS!
Where are you going for your honeymoon?
Amsterdam!
What's the best meal you have eaten together?
Anything that we cook together :)
What's the most memorable trip you have taken together?
Hard to say. We travel a lot for work purposes. Miami was pretty dope, but Austin and Dallas Texas was fun!
Schedule
Travel
Getting In
If you plan to fly, we recommend flying into Memphis International Airport!
Moving around Memphis!
Memphis is a busy city and traffic can be bad! We recommend you leave early to your desired destination. Especially on the day of the wedding :)
Visit one of our favorite restaurants while in the city of Memphis
Q & A
For all our friends and family who have lots of questions, please check out our Q & A first!
Is the wedding still on for May 2, 2020?
With heavy hearts, we have made the decision to postpone due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Please check our website for more information.
Whom should I call with questions?
Shioka Birmingham (Maid of Honor) 334 312-0586 OR toppswedding2020@gmail.com
Marlene Smith (Mother of the Bride) 662 229-8063
Wedding Party
Shioka Birmingham
Maid of Honor
Shikia Chapman-Long
Bridesmaid
Hollie O'Neal
Bridesmaid
Althia Topps
Bridesmaid
Breanna McDade
Bridesmaid
Paisley McDade
Flower Girl
Jawan Elliot
Best Man
Marcus Smith, Jr
Groomsman
Lamar Savage
Groomsman
Anthony Topps, Jr
Groomsman
Mandella Topps
Groomsman
Cameron Topps
Ring Bearer
Registry
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