Saturday September 2, 2017
Baltimore, Maryland
2850 days 5 hrs 28 mins ago
Our Story
From our own perspectives -
Raman's side:
Sherene and I didn't get along at first. In fact, one of my most memorable early moments of interacting with Sherene was when she yelled at me at a SAS party because I had front door duty and she thought I was doing a terrible job (I wasn't).
I was convinced that we had no business being friends, but somehow that changed. We started hanging out after SASBoard meetings, and I quickly realized that I had serious misconceptions about her. What began as a debrief on the last board meeting (and an opportunity to express some opinions we couldn't express to the larger group) eventually turned into deep conversations about friends, family, and life.
Whether it is verbally in person or by text on GChat, Sherene has been a constant source of support in my life ever since. We've been unintentionally chasing each other around the East Coast (me following her to New York and her following me to DC), but I think it's time we put an end to that and start planning our lives together.
Sherene's side:
I first met Raman freshmen year at UPenn, and suffice to say, it did not go well. It took about three different times for Raman to remember my first name and he kept re-introducing himself to me. I was not impressed.
After we both joined SASBoard during our sophomore year, we became really good friends after realizing that we shared similar traits such as a twisted sense of humor and a fierce loyalty to our friends. Over the years, we became best friends who supported each other through all the milestones in our adult lives: moving to new cities, broken hearts and failed relationships, embarking on new careers, making new friends, everything.
After having known Raman for 12 years (!!), I can honestly say that there is no one who knows me better or who is better suited for me.
Tidbits
Where and when are you getting married?
The celebration will be in Baltimore! Specifically, the wedding reception will be held at the Renaissance Baltimore Harborplace Hotel right on the inner harbor in Baltimore on Saturday, September 2, 2017.
Need to book a hotel room? Scroll down to the accommodations section to learn how to get a discounted rate!
How did you first meet?
Raman and Sherene first met in 2005 at the SAS freshmen mixer Sherene organized at the local bowling alley. Raman attended and they introduced themselves to each other.
The next time they first met was a few weeks after that at Hill College House when Sherene stopped by to grab lunch with a friend who lived there. Raman introduced himself to Sherene then, too.
They next time they first met was at the SAS show try outs when Hype tried out to perform in the fall show. Raman again introduced himself to Sherene. She said nothing and judged.
Who's going to take out the trash?
Raman will, as long as Sherene does the dishes :D
How did you propose?
On Wednesday, February 15, Raman told Sherene that they should go out for a nice dinner. At the end of the day, he showed up at Sherene's work place to pick her up. He had clues ready for her that took her around the city to their favorite places.
The first stop was Churchkey on 14th St in Logan Circle. This was a place where Sherene first met Raman's siblings, and they spent a lot of time with their friends. The second stop was Mandu, a Korean restaurant in DC where they discovered one of their favorite dishes: dolsot bibim bap.
The final stop was the Sculpture Garden in DC. This place holds special meaning because Sherene has always wanted to go for their summer Jazz in the Garden events, but Raman's work schedule never allowed it! They spent some time walking around the garden and looking at the sculptures. As they were walking along a path, Sherene noticed a blanket near Robert Indiana’s AMOR installation. There is a LOVE statue by Robert Indiana on Penn's campus where Sherene and Raman first met. It was there, in front of the statue, that Raman proposed!
What's your favorite activity together?
We love to cook together! Trying to create new recipes is one of our favorite hobbies. In fact, if you have a favorite go-to recipe, please send it along! We'd love to try it out.
Where are you going for your honeymoon?
Somewhere warm with great drinks!
What's the best meal you have eaten together?
Any of the meals we cook together =)
What nicknames do you have for each other?
Babe and Babe
Travel Information
Renaissance Baltimore Harborplace Hotel
The main site of the wedding! The wedding party will be staying here, and the reception will be taking place here on Saturday, September 2.
To book a room, please use this link:
You can also call the hotel directly for a reservation:
Reservations Toll Free: 1-877-212-5752
Reservations Local Phone: 1-410-547-1200
Don't forget to mention the Gupta/Joseph wedding to get the special rate!
Book soon, the special rate expires on August 1st!
Baltimore/Washington International Thurgood Marshall Airport (BWI)
BWI airport is about a 20 minute drive from Baltimore's Inner Harbor. You can either rent a car or take transportation (Uber or taxis) to reach Baltimore.
Q & A
For all our friends and family who have lots of questions, please check out our FAQ first!
When is the RSVP deadline?
July 7, 2017-- are you ready to RSVP? Follow this link and search your name:
If you're having trouble, please email us!
I am coming from out of town. Where should I stay?
We have a block of rooms at the Renaissance Baltimore Harborplace Hotel. Follow this link to get a discounted room:
What is the wedding hashtag?
#RamanSherene2017 - use it everywhere!
Are kids welcome?
More than welcome!
I have a question not answered here; how do I contact you?
Email us at ramanandsherene@gmail.com!
Wedding Party
Ramesh & Nitu Gupta
Parents of the Groom
Josekunju & Markykutty Chamakalayil
Parents of the Bride
Nikhil Gupta
Best Man
Cyril & Merene Makil
Brother-in-Law of the Bride & Matron of Honor
Neha Gupta
Sister of the Groom
Simon Chamakalayil
Brother of the Bride
Evan Makil
Ring Bearer
Landon Makil
Ring Bearer
Raj Parikh
Groomsman
Natasha Kwendakwema
Bridesmaid
Rahul Natesh
Groomsman
Piyali Sircar
Bridesmaid
Nikhil Gupta
Groomsman
Rita Bagai
Bridesmaid
Miten Mistry
Groomsman
Kiran Suryadevara
Bridesmaid
Chirag Shah
Groomsman
Aishwarya Bhake Shah
Bridesmaid
Dan Wang
Groomsman
Amulya Penmetsa
Bridesmaid
Amar Bains
Groomsman
Vandana Sood
Bridesmaid
Ricky Sharma
Groomsman
Rajiv Menon
Bridesman
Tonku Gopal
Groomsman
Registry
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