Story
We were both very skeptical at first but met on Hinge, the dating app. Due to Sean's traveling schedule we talked for about a month before we actually met in person for our first date. Sean showed up to Melissa's house with flowers in hand and to no surprise Melissa was not ready. Sean stood in the hallway watching Melissa finish her hair & makeup. We went to 801 Chophouse for dinner then drove downtown to visit the World War 1 Memorial where Sean kissed Melissa for the first time. After that we drove around talking, eventually ending up at the downtown airport watching planes takeoff!
Following that first date, when Sean was off the rig our weekends were either spent at Sean's place on the farm in Missouri or at Melissa's house in Kansas City. Slowly it transitioned to Sean spending his full 2 weeks off where ever Melissa was! :)
Tidbits
How did you first meet?
See Our Story!
Who made the first move? How?
He made the first move when he swiped right on Hinge!
What's your favorite activity together?
Making dinner together or cruising back roads!
What's the most memorable trip you have taken together?
Our road trip around Texas, we went down to Big Bend National Park and spent a couple days at Cibolo Creek Ranch. The views were absolutely amazing and great times exploring together! Sean's truck slightly breaking down during the trip might have added to the "memorable" part of this vacation!
We’re on the same page about
On Sean's days off we are going to be together no matter where we are!
We are regulars at
Summer Moon Coffee! We highly recommend you try it out while in Kansas City!
We take pride in
Going all out for Christmas! Sean handles the lights on the house and Melissa decorates the inside!
How did you propose?
Sean arrived home early from the rig one Wednesday evening to surprise Melissa. He had followed in his fathers footsteps of "stretching the truth to accomplish his goal." His small fib was going to look at truck parts instead of coming straight home to Melissa... He arrived 3 hours ahead of schedule, deployed his drone to capture the moment. He then proceeded to beat the front door off the hinges!!! With both our hearts pounding, he got down on one knee in the same exact spot we both laid eyes on each other for the first time and YES was the anwser!!!!
Schedule
Registry
Travel
Q & A
For all our friends and family who have lots of questions, please check out our Q&A!
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by September 18th, so we can have an accurate headcount. :)
Can I bring a date?
Please check your invite for your +1 or in the RSVP section of the website if you have a +1.
Are kids welcome?
Come have a date night on us! As much as we love your kiddos, due to venue availability & size limits we were not able to extend invites for all kids. We feel very blessed to have such a large family and multitude of friends, we hope you understand. If you have an infant you are welcome to bring them with you. Please reference your invitation and/or reach out if you have questions!
Where should I park?
There is plenty of parking at the church and at the venue. Feel free to take advantage of our complementary shuttle so you don't have to worry about driving and parking at our reception!
Are the ceremony and reception locations wheelchair accessible?
Yes, and we will have a golf cart available for anyone needing assistance getting around the property at the venue!
What should I wear?
Cocktail Attire
Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
Our wedding ceremony will be inside the church and the reception will be inside with an outdoor patio area.
What kind of shoes should/shouldn't I wear?
Definitely wear dancing shoes!
Is it okay to take pictures with our phones and cameras during the wedding?
Yes! We would love for you to take photos and share them on our app Joy.
However, please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony.
Is there transportation being provided between reception and hotels?
Yes, we will provide a shuttle between The Hampton Inn & Suites and The Haven. It will run from 4:30 PM -11:30 PM, so you can take the shuttle to and from the venue! Your safety is very important to us, we want everyone to have a good time and be responsible!
Can we leave our car overnight at The Haven Event Space?
Yes, they just ask that you pick it up by noon the next day. The gates will be closed, but if you ring the doorbell they will let you in!
Will there be a break between the ceremony and the reception?
Yes, there will be a short break while we take a few photos. The reception opens at 5:00 PM for guest to arrive!
What should we do during the break?
Try out one of our favorite places from our recommendation list. Visit Top Golf, Louisburg Cider Mill, KC Wine Co, or any other fun spot in KC you found. If you are taking advantage of the shuttle provided, meet at The Hampton Inn & Suites for a ride to the venue.
Wedding Party
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