Please RSVP by 14th February so we have a little bit of time to confirm catering numbers and adjust seating plans etc.

Hopefully we've made that clear on your invite. Please check your invite for a plus one.

Yes! This should be clear on your invite. Please RSVP on behalf of children and partners too so that we can account for them. A babysitting service will be avail... NOPE. Sorry. Not really. However, our children will be going fully feral on the farm so we'll be in the same boat. Please reach out if you have questions!

May is typically the driest month of the year but you're on the North West coast now so prepare for gales and downpours unexpectedly. While many guests will be wearing beer jackets consider actual jackets for little ones. Naturally it will be chilly at night so, bugger it, bring a jacket for yourself too or some funky fur and warm layers.

There is plenty of parking on the farm. Last to arrive gets the muddiest space.

Well, lets say "yes". The Barn and bar are wheelchair accessible but for "reasons" we've decided to do much of this get-together in a field. All sensible care hands and well directed groomsmen will be on hand to ensure nobody feels awkward or stuck because of the uneven ground in places.

See our Schedule for the dress code, but the headlines are 1. dress for a wedding. 2. but consider wellies or trainers (honestly). 3. The North West can be cold, damp, dark, damp, windy, damp and (on occasion) damp.

Our wedding ceremony is indoors, but our reception will be in an arch tent on the adjacent field. Much of the entertainment will be outside of the tent on the field.

Okay, we feel we've covered this but lets just make this clear. Do not wear stiletto heels, okay? UNLESS you're bringing a shoe swap for when we take things outside onto the field. Info: fields are made of grass/dirt and can be a bit squishy so consider nothing less than a chunky heel or sandal. Pros should go with whatever they fancy followed by a sequinned welly / walking boot.

Yes! We would love for you to take photos on the day and share them with us. However, please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. Flashes can be quite distracting as can wedding guests running around the aisle trying to get the best angle. IMPORTANT: Please do not post any pictures online featuring children attending our wedding (unless they are your own). It would be easy to just apply this rule to pictures of Jasmine and Benjamin but lets all try and be understanding that this rule is best applied generally. Sincerely, thank you for following this rule.

Really. Hmm. Okay, I suppose we couldn't anticipate every question. Send an email to weddingwestbury@gmail.com or if you have our phone numbers contact one of us via text/whatsapp etc. We will usually get back to you within a day unless it's a really tricky question.